Robert D. Ramsey is a lifelong educator who has served as a "leader of leaders" in three award-winning school districts in two different states. His frontline experience includes positions a teacher, counselor, assistant principal, curriculum director, assistant superintendent, acting superintendent, and adjunct professor. Most recently, he has served as associate superintendent in the St. Louis Park (MN) schools, where every school has been designated by the federal government as a National School of Excellence. Ramsey is now working full-time as a freelance writer in Minneapolis.
Review
"I had several 'ah-hah' moments while reading this book. I cannot imagine anyone reading this book and not finding it worthwhile. Kudos to the author for creating a meaningful guide for today's school administrator."
Summary
Time-tested techniques for avoiding 20 most common communication mistakes! This user-friendly resource for school leaders provides practical strategies for improving daily interactions with students, colleagues, parents, and the community. Each chapter presents ready-to-use tips for effective verbal and written communications. The author offers do's and don'ts for difficult situations—including grief and healing—and straight-talk techniques for approaching sensitive topics such as sex, gangs, and substance abuse. This revised edition features: How-to's for dealing with natural and man-made disasters A new chapter on differentiating communication to reach a wide audience of stakeholders A new section on communicating with school board members
Table of Contents
List of Boxes Preface Acknowledgments About the Author
1. The Twenty Biggest Communication Mistakes School Leaders Make and How to Avoid Them The Top Twenty Reasons
Educators Fail to Communicate The Jargon Trap Euphemisms Feel Good but Don't Send a Clear Message Too Much Political
Correctness Can Send Wimpy Messages How Straight Talk Can Make You a Better School Leader When the Right Thing
to Say Is "Nothing" More "Must-Do" Tips for Always Saying the Right Thing
2. How to Say the Right Thing to Students Ten Guidelines for Communicating With Students Straight Talk Is the
Language of Choice With Kids How to Talk to Young Children on Their Level How to Talk to Today's Teenagers Differences
in Talking to Boys and Girls Another Dozen Do's and Don'ts for Saying the Right Things to Kids of All Ages How
to Give Clear Directions and Instructions Every Time Socrates Had It Right: How to Ask Effective Questions How
to Give Students "Pep Talks" That Really Work How to Give Authentic Praise How to Help Kids Talk Themselves
Into Success Rhetoric-Free Reprimands Dealing With Touchy Topics (Alcohol, Drugs, Sex, Eating Disorders, and Other
At-Risk Behaviors) How to Talk to Kids About Death and Dying How to Talk to Tough Kids (Including Gang Members)
How to Talk to Kids About School Violence How to Talk to Kids About National Tragedies
3. How to Say the Right Thing to Parents What to Say to Put Parents at Ease Success Secrets for Communicating
"Must-Know" Information Straight Talk at Parent-Teacher Conferences How to Explain Grades and Test Scores
How to Share Good News With Parents How to Break Bad News (Failure, Retention, Disciplinary Action, Athletic Ineligibility)
Don't Beat Around the Bush About Bad Behavior How to Talk to Parents About Student Secrets, Surprises, and Other
Sensitive Subjects (Dependency, Pregnancy, Homosexuality) What to Say to Angry, Out-of-Control Parents and Other
Adults More Pointers for Saying the Right Thing to Parents
4. How to Say the Right Thing to Peers and Colleagues Successful Job Interviews: How to Ask the Right Questions
and Give the Right Answers How to Ask for and Offer Help to Peers and Colleagues How to Give Advice The Language
of Coaching and Mentoring How to Argue and Win The Proper Art of Bitching: How to Complain About the System and
the People in It How to Criticize a Colleague Without Losing a Friend What to Say and Not Say When Giving References
and Recommendations What to Say and How to Say It in Performance Reviews How to Pay Tribute to a Colleague How
to Say the Right Thing to the Central Office How to Say the Right Thing to the School Board
5. How to Say the Right Thing to the General Public and the Media Smooth Schmoozing: How to Make Small Talk
How to Sway Opinion and Persuade Nonbelievers How to Handle Complaints From the Public How to Make the Most of
Good News Truth in Taxation How to Ask for Money "Houston, We Have a Problem": What to Say When Trouble
Strikes How to Apologize and Admit Mistakes to the Public Spin-Doctoring for Amateurs Dealing With the Media: What
to Say to Reporters Do's and Don'ts of Public Speaking for School Leaders
6. How to Say the Right Thing in Special Situations Secrets of Successful Ceremonial Greetings How to Give and
Receive Compliments How to Show Appreciation and Say "Thank You" How to Say "No" and Make It
Stick Tips on Testifying Advice for Leading Prayers, Giving Invocations, and Pronouncing Benedictions What to Say
to Someone Who Is Not Going to Get Well How to Express Sympathy How to Give a Eulog